Integrate BPD™

Program Overview

1. Integrate BPD™ Overview and Onboarding
2. Download Foundations of Integrate BPD™
3. Integrate BPD™ Measurement Tool
4. Integrate BPD™ Measurement #1
5. Integrate BPD™ Class Schedule
6. Introduction to Personality Disorders
7. Borderline and Narcissistic Personality
8. Core Injuries in BPD
9. Permanent Healing from BPD
10. Introducing Reality Integration Therapy™ (RIT)
11. Psychoanalysts Underscoring RIT
12. Integrate BPD™ Roadmap
1. Welcome to Phase I of Reality Integration Therapy™ (RIT): Fantasy Dismantling
2. Check-In Survey #1
3. Check-In Survey
4. Download Module 1 for Offline Reading
5. Your Story and Your Trauma
6. Childhood Narcissistic Abuse
7. Seeing the Narcissistic False Self
8. Separating From Abuse
9. Self Forgiveness and Ownership
10. Matching Fantasies
11. Prolonged Grief
12. Grieving Others vs. Ourselves
13. An Eternal Loss
14. What Are My Options?
15. Delusion and Fantasy
16. Goodbye to Malignant Victimhood
1. Check-In Survey #2
2. Check-In Survey
3. Download Module 2 for Offline Reading
4. What is Empathy?
5. Empaths
6. Splitting
7. Arrested Narcissistic Development
8. Borderline False Self
9. A Lack of Cognitive Empathy
10. Fantasy as a Childhood Defense
11. Secondary Psychopathy
12. Mislabeling Emotions
13. Object Relations
14. Unrealistic Expectations
1. Check-In Survey #3
2. Check-in Survey
3. Download Module 3 for Offline Reading
4. Primary Healthy Narcissism
5. Secondary Pathological Narcissism
6. A Grieving Infant
7. Exporting Their Grief Onto You
8. Struggle to Separate and Individuate
9. Arrested Empathy
10. A Pathological Narcissist's Lens
11. Discard and Abandonment Anxiety
12. Co-idealization
13. Automatic Behavior—No Calculation
14. Separation—Left with Nothingness
1. Welcome to Phase II of Reality Integration Therapy™ (RIT): Separation and Individuation
2. Measure Your Progress
3. Post Fantasy Dismantling Measurement Survey
4. Download Module 4 for Offline Reading
5. The Necessity of Separation
6. Changed Places to an Extreme
7. Borderline Left With Nothingness
8. Compromised Ego and Superego
9. Self Forgiveness
10. Removing the Narcissist's Voice
11. More On Separation
12. A Brief Moment of Nonexistence
13. Prolonged Grief—Denial of Loss
14. Separation as Optimal Decision
15. Contact During Separation
1. Check-In Survey #4
2. Check-in Survey
3. Download Module 5 for Offline Reading
4. What is Individuation?
5. Mahler's Separation—Individuation
6. Carl Jung's Individuation
7. Re-Individuation as a Borderline
8. Phase I of Re-individuation
9. Phase II of Re-individuation
10. #1: Self Awareness
11. #2: Unconditional Self Acceptance
12. #3: Self Forgiveness & Trust
13. #4: Self Efficacy
14. Phase III of Re-Individuation
1. Welcome to Phase III of Reality Integration Therapy™ (RIT): Whole Object Relations and Final Integration
2. Measure Your Progress
3. Post Separation & Individuation Measurement Survey
4. Download Module 6 for Offline Reading
5. Puzzle Piece Psychodynamics
6. NPD and BPD Comorbidity Doesn't Exist
7. Object Constancy vs. Introject Constancy
8. BPD's Inner Psychodynamics
9. NPD's Inner Psychodynamics
10. Confabulation in BPD and NPD
11. A Relationship That Must Fail
12. Can They Heal Together?
13. What About Twin Flames?
14. Origins of the Fantasy World
15. Relationship with Reality
1. Check-In Survey #5
2. Check-In Survey
3. Download Module 7 for Offline Reading
4. An Integrated Lens of Love & Abuse
5. Achieving Whole Object Relations
6. The Soul Versus The Ego
7. Integrated Lens of Narcissism and Empathy
8. There is Only One Reality
9. Coming Back Home
10. Am I Normal and Healthy Now?
11. From Egodystonic to Egosyntonic
12. A Single Internal Voice
13. The Capacity To Be Alone
1. Check-In Survey #6
2. Check-In Survey
3. Download Module 8 for Offline Reading
4. Your New Friend Gratitude
5. Will I Relapse?
6. Purpose and Career
7. Rebuilding Healthy Friendships
8. Forgiving Others
9. Validate Yourself
10. Never Lose Focus of Yourself
11. You Can Trust Yourself Now
12. $1 Is Enough
13. Congratulations!
1. Measure Your Progress
2. Post-Integrate BPD Measurement Survey
3. Download Integrate BPD for Offline Reading
4. Ongoing Support
5. Integrate BPD Feedback Survey
1. Prolonged Grief
2. Splitting and Identity Diffusion
3. Emotional Regulation
4. BPD and NPD Relationships
5. Getting Over a Narcissist
6. Healthy Narcissism
7. Cognitive Empathy
8. Question Your Partner
9. Impaired Mate Selection
10. Forgiving Yourself
11. Mortification and Collapse
12. Can Narcissists be Healed?
13. Reconnecting and Rebuilding Self
14. Q&A With a Diagnosed Narcissist
15. Safely Dating Again
16. Narcissist vs. Psychopath
17. Parenting with BPD
18. Internal vs. External Object Constancy
19. Twin Flames or Pathological Relationship
20. Learning Self Love
21. Behavior vs. Psychodynamic Change
22. Friendships with Narcissists
23. Failure to Run From Reality
24. All About Boundaries
25. Internal vs. External Forgiveness
26. Working Through Forgiveness
27. Self Trust
28. Radical Acceptance
29. Removing Narcissistic Internal Objects
30. Dealing with BPD Triggers
31. Resilience After Self Harm and Abuse
32. Relapse, Normal or Not?
33. Psychosexuality of BPD and NPD
34. Are My Boundaries Valid?
35. From Nothingness to Somethingness
36. Rumination
37. False Self of BPD
38. Unseen Introjects
39. Grieving a Pathological Parent
40. Isolation vs. Separation
41. Real vs. Perceived Threats
42. Separating from Idealized introjects
43. Invisible Loyalty to the Narcissist
44. Projective Identification
45. Apologizing with BPD
46. BPD False Self vs. Real Healthy Narcissism
47. BPD and NPD Sex Life
48. Healthy Integrated Empathy
49. Healthy vs. Unhealthy Family Systems
50. Dealing With Guilt
51. How to Know You're Healed
52. Goodbye to Stockholm Syndrome
53. Tolerating Frustration
54. Enforcing Boundaries
55. Building a Flexible Personality
56. Prolonged Grief Part II
57. The Split and Fragmented Self
58. BPD and NPD Relationships
59. Multi-dimensional Abuse
60. Coercive Control
61. A Limit to Cognitive Empathy
62. Pursuing Favorable Outcomes
63. Control vs. Autonomy
64. Living in Other Peoples' Heads
65. Borderline's Avoidance of Reality
66. Fears of Engulfment and Abandonment
67. Self Amputation in BPD (and BDSM)
68. Becoming an Expert at Self Validation
69. The Triggered Ego
70. Radical Truth or Emotional Terrorism
71. Amnesia and Memory Loss in BPD
72. Why No Amount of Love feels Like Enough (9/29/25)
73. Suffering as a Means of Control (11/3/2025)
74. Every Mistake as a Death Sentence (11/10/25)
75. Apologizing Without Over Explaining (11/17/2025)
1. Glossary of Terms
1. Separation-Individuation in the Psychotherapy of Symbiotic States
2. The Concept of Synchronization in the Process of Separation-Individuation Between a Parent and an Adolescent
3. Separation-Individuation Theory and Attachment Theory
4. Changes in Separation-individuation and Intersubjectivity in Long-Term Treatment
5. An Object Relations Model of Borderline Pathology
6. Object Relations in Psychoanalytic Theory
7. Interview with Otto F. Kernberg, M.D., F.A.P.A., Developer of Object Relations Psychoanalytic Therapy for Borderline Personality Disorder
8. An Object-Relations Based Model for the Assessment of Borderline Psychopathology
9. Identity Diffusion as the Organizing Principle of Borderline Personality Traits in Adolescents—A Non-clinical Study
10. Dimensions of Identity Diffusion
11. Associations between Identity Diffusion, Axis II Disorder, and Psychopathology in Inpatients with Borderline Personality Disorder
12. Identity Disturbance in Borderline Personality Disorder: An Empirical Investigation
13. Pathological Altruism
14. Healthy Selfishness and Pathological Altruism: Measuring Two Paradoxical Forms of Selfishness
15. Normal and Pathological Altruism
16. Pathological Altruism and Pathological Regulation

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Foundations of Integrate BPD™

Module 1 - CPTSD and Prolonged Grief

Module 2 - Empathy vs. Empaths

Module 3 - Narcissism vs. Narcissists

Module 4 - Separation

Module 5 - Individuation

Module 6 - BPD and NPD Relationships

Module 7 - Integration

Module 8 - Creating a New Life

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